It had been a week since my last post. I am away for Raya break. Hehe..
Will update my blog later about my short break.
So, before that, something interesting from FB to share with you all:
10 things you MUST give up to MOVE FORWARD
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Thursday, August 16, 2012
PROS and CONS of coffee consumption
Saw another post about coffee on FB.
Well, as a typical #CoffeeLover, I still love drinking coffee no matter what. Enjoy reading. :)
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Which profession drinks the most coffee?
Which profession drinks the most coffee?
When you first saw this headline, which profession do you think? As for me, "student" immediately come across my mind. Hahaha.. Nevertheless, an annual survey had been conducted on US coffee consumption trends in the workplace by Dunkin' Donuts and CareerBuilder @Sept 2011 and a chart had been made accordingly by http://en.ilovecoffee.jp/posts/view/23.
So, is the result surprise you? Or no?
Pray for boyfriend
Richard is down with food poisoning since Monday. Plus some post effect from the Neon run @Sunday, he suffered aches all over the body. Today, I got the news that he feels pain with his stomach, feels like being poke by knife, I am indeed very worried for him. But I can't do anything for him, can't go visit him (coz I don't have transport to go all the way to Kepong), what can I do is only PRAY!
Yes, with the little faith that I have, I pray to God for healing and speedy recovery, I pray that he'll be fine and come back with full strength. I pray that God's peace and joy be with him.
Yes, with the little faith that I have, I pray to God for healing and speedy recovery, I pray that he'll be fine and come back with full strength. I pray that God's peace and joy be with him.
真正的长大
-文章摘自网路-
来源:
所谓长大；真正的长大，
是灵魂的完整，
而不是分裂为两个我；一个严厉批评、要求督促，
另一个则是弱小恐惧、无助哭泣....
真正的长大，是内在的整合，
知道与确认自己有能力照顾自己，
并且能稳定的保持这个承诺。
不会忽有忽无，忽能够忽不能够。
也不会复制过去不佳的被照顾经验在自己与他人身上。
真正的长大是，
深知生命的重量如何，
即使会畏怕，
仍能怀抱希望与力量面对。
真正的长大是，
你的内在就是最稳固的中心，
你不需要再把自己推向任何他人，
要他人将你视为孩子般的呵护，
来满足你那无尽的不安与无助。
你会知道，他人都是生命中的一份支持或陪伴，
但绝无法成为你内在最实在与最稳定的安全力量。
你若没有能力给予内在最大的安全保障，
也无法给予自己生命最稳定的安全堡垒，
你是无法成为完整的成熟个体，
你仍让自己反覆受伤、受挫，
反覆让自己经历到外在的遗弃与拒绝，
却迟迟不愿意好好保护与照顾自己，
那么，你是无法真正长大的。
你仍想躲在洞里，即使暗不见天日，
也不想靠自己的力量，
向外在的世界拓展一步，
好证明你的存在，展现你成熟的灵魂。
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Word of the SEASON
This is my note made during leaders' meeting @07/08/2012. Some reflection though.
Christianity is always a relationship with God, it's our faith and conviction in God. But where comes our conviction? It's from the revelation from and of God Himself, and the revelation come from the encounter with God. When people have conviction, people will make the decision to build a system or structure to contain the conviction, and through the system/ structure birth forth the progress/ results/ growth which eventually give glory to God. But the question is WHAT'S NEXT??????
Let's go step by step.
Encounter, one encounter can cause you to love or hate something/someone. Simplest example of it all, when you fail a relationship, you may cry 'All girls/ guys are bad!!'. But when you find a right one, you will be in a lovely lifelong romantic relationship. Well, it's all about encounter.
The height of volunteer is always stronger, because it's out of conviction. Don't you agree?
When we put our focus 100% in system/ structure (3), there's where downfall begins, because it's not where we start off, our start is at the encounter. Thus, the real solution is go back to the encounter, we need to find a new encounter. It's a cycle that keeps you going. If you find yourself trapped, no able to move on, without strength, perhaps it's time for you to put aside all your serving and come back before God and seek for a new encounter with the source Himself.
Usually people that left, they focus on (3) for many many years and are caught there. When people are caught at (3), petty issue always become bigger and bigger in life. While the solution is seek a new encounter, that's also precaution to avoid from being caught at (3):
Our lives are the message, it's not the message (sermon) itself. A person always have greater impact than the message itself.
Christianity is essentially about relationship. What are the 3 most basic yet most important relationship in our lives? They are
1. Relationship with God
2. Relationship with Yourself
3. Relationship with Others
Relationship is not just a theory, it's our priority. God speak to us through people, and God may speak to people through us as well. You need to first learn how to have a good relationship with yourself before you can have good relationship with others. Same thing, you need to first learn how to love yourself before you can love others. Well, how can you love others while you don't know how to love yourself? :)
Pain begins when wrong voices are given access into your life. Interestingly, wrong people won't and they don't leave our lives voluntarily.
Change happens when you make decision and take action, you can't just wait. New season are usually ushered by new people or new truth through people in your life. And, real changes must take place with real association. Thus, probably place people prevent problems. Everyone needs 3 types of people in their lives:
1. Paul-A mentor that guides and disciple us
2. Barnabas-A partner/ peer/ friend that encourages and hold us accountable
3. Timothy-A disciple/ successor we help to guide and disciple
At the end of the day, give glory to God is our ultimate goal. While money and status is important, eternity is even more. Your companion in your life determine how far you can go in your life and eventually your destiny. Thus, be wise when you open up access for people to enter into your life. You are not designed to be everybody's friend, and not everybody are designed to be your friend as well. Learn to cut away certain relationship, redefine, reassign and remove if necessary.
Christianity is always a relationship with God, it's our faith and conviction in God. But where comes our conviction? It's from the revelation from and of God Himself, and the revelation come from the encounter with God. When people have conviction, people will make the decision to build a system or structure to contain the conviction, and through the system/ structure birth forth the progress/ results/ growth which eventually give glory to God. But the question is WHAT'S NEXT??????
Let's go step by step.
Encounter, one encounter can cause you to love or hate something/someone. Simplest example of it all, when you fail a relationship, you may cry 'All girls/ guys are bad!!'. But when you find a right one, you will be in a lovely lifelong romantic relationship. Well, it's all about encounter.
The height of volunteer is always stronger, because it's out of conviction. Don't you agree?
When we put our focus 100% in system/ structure (3), there's where downfall begins, because it's not where we start off, our start is at the encounter. Thus, the real solution is go back to the encounter, we need to find a new encounter. It's a cycle that keeps you going. If you find yourself trapped, no able to move on, without strength, perhaps it's time for you to put aside all your serving and come back before God and seek for a new encounter with the source Himself.
Usually people that left, they focus on (3) for many many years and are caught there. When people are caught at (3), petty issue always become bigger and bigger in life. While the solution is seek a new encounter, that's also precaution to avoid from being caught at (3):
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH RIGHT PEOPLE/ RIGHT FRIEND
1 Corinthian 15:33
Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
Christianity is essentially about relationship. What are the 3 most basic yet most important relationship in our lives? They are
1. Relationship with God
2. Relationship with Yourself
3. Relationship with Others
Relationship is not just a theory, it's our priority. God speak to us through people, and God may speak to people through us as well. You need to first learn how to have a good relationship with yourself before you can have good relationship with others. Same thing, you need to first learn how to love yourself before you can love others. Well, how can you love others while you don't know how to love yourself? :)
LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR AS THYSELF
Pain begins when wrong voices are given access into your life. Interestingly, wrong people won't and they don't leave our lives voluntarily.
Change happens when you make decision and take action, you can't just wait. New season are usually ushered by new people or new truth through people in your life. And, real changes must take place with real association. Thus, probably place people prevent problems. Everyone needs 3 types of people in their lives:
1. Paul-A mentor that guides and disciple us
2. Barnabas-A partner/ peer/ friend that encourages and hold us accountable
3. Timothy-A disciple/ successor we help to guide and disciple
PURSUE A PAUL, TRAIN A BARNABAS, BE A TIMOTHY
At the end of the day, give glory to God is our ultimate goal. While money and status is important, eternity is even more. Your companion in your life determine how far you can go in your life and eventually your destiny. Thus, be wise when you open up access for people to enter into your life. You are not designed to be everybody's friend, and not everybody are designed to be your friend as well. Learn to cut away certain relationship, redefine, reassign and remove if necessary.
Last word,
BREAK UP ARE SOMETIMES NOT MEANT FOR MAKE UP, BUT BREAK UP
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
This is random, but it's specially for YOU
A random post in this lovely morning. This post is dedicated to someone special in my life. Hehehe..
Well, have this random idea of writing this post specially for HER.
It's a miracle, a mystery and astonishment for her friends to recognize the fact that we have become very good friend, and we still are. Why so? Because the person that made us know each other. You'll know why if you are her friend. Haha.. People may not understand why and how, but I would say that we are simple and sincere enough to make friend with each other.
Well, of course, we have our own thunderstorm in this friendship between us, yet we manage to sail through the storm and come together even closer.
Reading back all the old sms, I am happy and excited for her that she has grown so much and having so much breakthrough, either in her serving in different ministry, her relationship with others or her life.
Miss those old days we hangout together, those overnights experience and lovely moment of sharing. Though we are now busy with our own lives, wish that we would be able to spend more time together.
Not sure if you would be able to notice this post or not, but this is specially for you--Cayman Yong.
Well, have this random idea of writing this post specially for HER.
It's a miracle, a mystery and astonishment for her friends to recognize the fact that we have become very good friend, and we still are. Why so? Because the person that made us know each other. You'll know why if you are her friend. Haha.. People may not understand why and how, but I would say that we are simple and sincere enough to make friend with each other.
Well, of course, we have our own thunderstorm in this friendship between us, yet we manage to sail through the storm and come together even closer.
Reading back all the old sms, I am happy and excited for her that she has grown so much and having so much breakthrough, either in her serving in different ministry, her relationship with others or her life.
Miss those old days we hangout together, those overnights experience and lovely moment of sharing. Though we are now busy with our own lives, wish that we would be able to spend more time together.
Not sure if you would be able to notice this post or not, but this is specially for you--Cayman Yong.
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Lovely Collection
I love this lovely collection of mine. They are all pearl white.
Always love white colour, but can't really buy them, because I am not a gentle girl,
they may easily turn yellow or get dirty. These are those little exception. :)
It's AUGUST!!
Oops.. another month had passed. It's now August!! What have you achieved so far?
It's never too late to do something meaningful for your life. It's better late than still.
TAKE YOUR ACTION NOW!!!
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